According to a national survey by the American Dietetic Association, over 40% of Americans choose being on some form of diet as one of their New Year’s Resolutions.  Unfortunately, only 1 in 5 are still on it by the time February rolls around.  As we all know, getting on a diet is easy.  Sticking to a diet is really difficult.

There are some basic things that you can do however, that will significantly increase your chances of sticking with it for more than a day or two.

Use the Buddy System

Remember going swimming in the lake at Summer Camp?  What’s the first thing they always did?  They paired you up with somebody and told each of you that it was your job to look out for the other person.  They even occasionally did “buddy checks” to make sure that you and your buddy really were watching out for each other.

Well, the same concept applies to dieting.  Enlist the help of a “buddy” who also is dieting to help keep you on track. Now you’ve got someone that will hold you accountable to your goals as well as someone that you can help reach their goals. A buddy can encourage, nag, or shame you into sticking to your diet and you can do the same for them.  By working together, you both have a great chance of success.

Take Control of Your Environment

Go through your house, car, and workplace and remove all temptation.  That means throw out all candy, chips, soda, cookies, ice cream – everything sugary and sweet (and loaded with calories) that calls your name in the middle of the afternoon.  Don’t just hide it.  Get rid of it.  Otherwise, you’ll always find a reason to sneak in “just one.”  And once you’ve done that, your diet goes out the window.

The second part of controlling your environment is watching who you spend time around.  Make sure the people you’re normally around have positive  attitudes and eating habits that will support your efforts.  It’s difficult to stay on a diet when all of your friends keep of bowl of M&M’s on their desk.  It’s like trying to quit smoking when everyone around you is a smoker that keeps blowing smoke in your face.

That’s not what you want.  You want people around you that will understand and support what you’re trying to do.  And that might mean making the decision not to meet the guys or girls in the break-room for donuts and coffee every morning.

Make Absolute Rules – and Stick By Them

Although the other two tips are pretty good, I think this one is the most powerful.  Make up absolute rules about what you’re going to do, or not going to do, and then stick by them.  An absolute rule says something like, “I will not eat any candy, period.”

There’s no room for misinterpretation there.  There’s no room for “just one” or “only as a reward after I exercise.”  It’s pretty absolute.  No candy, period.

When you do this and someone offers you some M&M’s, the first thing that will pop into your mind is “I will not eat any candy.”  It provides a mental break, a brief pause for you to think about what you’re doing instead of just automatically reaching for the offered candy.

There’s one thing I know about myself, and probably about you too, and that is that if I allow some room to wiggle out of a rule I’ve set, I probably will find a reason to do so.  And here’s the thing – the “reasons” will all sound sooo good.  Reasons like:

• “I really exercised hard today.  I deserve a piece of candy.”
• “I’ve really done well on my diet and I’ve actually lost 3 pounds.  I can afford to eat just one little piece.”
• “I really need to finish this report but I feel so tired from working out.  Eating some candy will help wake me up.”
• “Just one piece won’t hurt.  I’ll get back on my diet first thing tomorrow.”
• “It’s an emergency!  I need candy to survive!”

Did I get any of yours?  I guarantee that if you leave yourself some wiggle room,  you’ll always find a way to rationalize breaking your diet.  Always.  Rationalization is what human’s do.  So don’t leave any room for it.  Make your rules absolute and then stick by them until you’ve reached your goal.

Lastly, remember that you stick to a diet the exact same way that someone quits smoking or drinking – one moment at a time.  Your goal shouldn’t be to stick to your diet for the next month.  Your goal should be to stick to your diet for the next hour.  You can handle an hour, right?  That’s all you need to do.  Stick with it for one hour.

And when that hour is up, you know what to do.  Commit to sticking with your diet for the next hour.  Before you know it, you’ll have made it through the day, the week, the month and will have reached the weight goal you set for yourself.

Use the Buddy System, control your environment so it supports your goals, make absolute rules and stick by them.  Do these things and sticking to your diet should be a snap.

Hiram
Certified Fitness Nutrition Coach and
Personal Fitness Trainer (NESTA)

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